It can be a truly thrilling event when your child comes home and tells you he or she wants to play a team sport like soccer. Not only will this mean that there might be some extra free time in your day when you aren’t responsible for making sure your child is entertained, but it also means they will be starting one of the most valuable experiences of their life. Sports can teach children how to work well with others in a team environment, how to strategize and how to coordinate their particular special talents with those of others around them.
Of course you will want your kid to have fun and be encouraged to keep going with the sport and there are a few things you can do to help with that. A great deal of their experience with soccer or any other sport will have to do with you, so you want to make sure that you are there to be supportive without going to the extreme of being overbearing. Go to the games and practices that you are able to attend, but also be aware of how your child is reacting to your presence there. Chances are you’ll still get your bonding time with them when they want to tell you all about what happened at practice afterwards.
Also, be sure to keep a level head about the game as well as their performance in it. Letting your child or their friends see you yelling and swearing at a ref or at the team in general for a bad play will not help anybody.
Most importantly, the goal of children’s sporting events should always be fun. A parent, coach or other involved adult should not ever be allowed to yell at or demean the children for mistakes that they make during the course of the game, nor should they ever insult or otherwise embarrass them. This is simply not the way to bring about the results they desire, and it does nothing more than damage a child’s self confidence.
If your son or daughter is not kicking, trapping or heading the ball properly, the best thing to do is show them the proper techniques during the next practice, or practice it with them on their own. Demonstrate how to kick, trap or head the ball, and tell them why it is important to do so; with positive reinforcement they will learn very quickly.
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